Canders - I don't think we can ever fix ourselves. If there is one thing that my T has tried very hard to get across to me and is starting to sink in - is that we cannot do this alone. We are not islands. Even T's have T's or a collegue they can go to. It is so hard to see from the inside. I was just thinking the other day why didn't I see this a year ago - it is so obvious to me now.

And I remember when I took psych classes ( a long long time ago ) I thought for sure I should not be out among the population because there wasn't one thing I couldn't relate to. It is hard.