ohhhhhh muffy.... i am so very, very sorry this is happening... if I could lift your burden for awhile and just hold it for you I would....As a mom of a son and myself having an ED,,,, I feel your pain.. I do... Mom's in general cannot have the "eyes" for everything, so please don't take this all on yourself...there have been so many times I have said to myself as a mom, "if only, I had..." but in the end, I am not sure I could have changed anything.

I am praying that this helps and not hurts you.. I just so want to offer words of comfort...
You and your son remain in my thoughts and prayers...
Sincerely, freewill