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T has been a lot of crisis management in the past - but know it seems like we are getting back to the original reason I went. He seems to ask how I feel about this or that or what are you thinking. I think that is why I am so annoyed with him. I don't ever answer - I always change the subject or say I don't know. I read the posts here and I so want everyone has with their T and yet I can't seem to go there with my T. I will stay - I need T and I know that but I just don't know how to proceed. I mean if I can't move forward then what is the point?

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Does he know the reason you started therapy? If he doesn't, maybe he's asking questions that having nothing to do with what you want and that is why you're understandably annoyed.

Maybe now that you do not need therapy for crises, you would like to go deeper. You say you would like to have the kinds of things you read here. I know that I wasn't able to do deeper work until I started to go to therapy twice a week. If I go infrequently, I just avoid things and can't bring up important things.

Another thing I had to do was put the hard things I wanted to talk about in writing. I know I never could have said them. Then he was able to lead the sessions in the direction I wanted to go.

Why does it have to be so hard?!?!