That is a good suggestion. I can often hold it together in situations like weddings and funerals as long as I don't see someone else cry. But if I do see someone else cry, then that's usually it for me, I'm a goner. In my T's and MC's offices though, the tears flow quite freely, I guess because I feel safe with them and don't feel the need to try to hold it together like if I'm in public. (The last place in that building that I'd managed not to cry was my p-doc's office, but I broke that wall down a few weeks ago when I was feeling really depressed.)