I agree with the above, you really might want to talk to your therapist about this. If he only brought her up once and it was in annoyance, you are running far outside of the circle with this and you are hurting not just yourself, but your husband. I'm glad that the meds are helping you to lose the thought, though. I would hate to here that it caused marital issues. Best of luck to you and I hope that things go smoother for you and your hubs.