Ugh, this is all about your bf being immature and spiteful, looks like he's playing tit for tat while throwing his toys out of his cot.


I assume he's older than 15? Since you mentioned living together, but its honestly realllly hard to imagine.


"You can't be intimate, I won't be intimate, but just so you know I will blame you all the way.."


Blech!


That's not only immature but pretty vindictive too, are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who's going to play these spiteful games whenever he doesn't get his way?


More importantly, are you willing to stay with someone who chooses to play these spiteful games over offering you emotional support in your time of need?


He clearly put his selfish pouting lack of sex WAY above your need for support during a painful time.

And when you were well enough to have sex, he decided to punish you, by rejecting your advances.


Ask yourself is this the type of person you want to be with long term....


Because its definitely not the type of man I would want to be with.

I need someone who can be there for me when times get tough, instead of a baby who throws a tantrum and demands attention instead.


Lucky for me though, I already have that man.


Me thinks you have some long term thinking to do.