I feel that way to at times.I just want to take things slow.Be friends with guys. Maybe have a romance bloom with one of them.Guys better be patient.Because i'm not willing to jump in a relationship right away.I'm more attracted to guys younger than me. Guys in their mid to late 20's.I'm 36 and half the guys my age in my area have beer belly's.There are only a few guys that are not well built that i find attractive.I like the Teddy bear types and other types.