When someone shows you who they are, best you believe them hun.


It took years for my ex to show me his ugly side,and boy was it a monstrosity.


Everyone puts their best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship, its natural, normal to want to be desirable and make sure you come across that way.


With that being said though, there are SOME people, who take this to another level. They put their best foot forward, display all the characteristics they know their partner wants, and then when they are comfortable and secure enough within the relationship and don't think their partner is going anywhere, their lovely supportive masks come off and they reveal themselves.


Your bf's 180 seems to suggest that he's showing you his true colors. Because if he was simply having issues contributing to this "new" behavior, I'm DEAD sure he'd at least display some genuine remorse for his cruel behavior.


I'm so sorry you feel so bad, I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.


All I've got is "Look after yourself, know that you deserve so much better. You're worthy of love, respect, loyalty, and YOU are important, don't sell yourself short. Demand better"