Not sure that at times confuses me. I don't like when my faimly do's it. Because in private they are rude to me and others.But in public are nicer.I usally can tell if it is fake.Because in my 36 years of being alive. I have heard about everything. I had an ex boss. Who only said nice things. When she needed me or others to work an extra day or a few extra hours.I told her flat out ok what do you want.