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Originally Posted by Bill3
It isn't much of a life, though, to be waiting and hoping for that "right frame of mind" to show up again, and being verbally abused and treated with coldness and indifference in the mean time.
Very good question.
I'm very sorry this is happening, but on the other hand it is useful to see this side of him. How will he treat you for example if you were to become pregnant and therefore perhaps less available for sex during pregnancy and after delivery and when kids are requiring a lot of your and his attention and energy?
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I think the worst part of all of this is him calling me lazy and selfish for taking time off to deal with my sickness. He knows this is a big insecurity for me and thats exactly why he chose to call me those things. I am actually neither but hearing your loved one say that to you when youre weak, you sort of start to believe it. He doesnt even get how low it was of him to say that to me. I cant imagine ever telling a sick person i loved that they were just lazy and selfish, its beyond me.