I just turned 23. He was 30- something... can't remember exactly. I'm not sure if I agree with being coerced but it was like it was on some level like he was hinting around by placing my hand above his pants and stuff. And I think you're probly right; probly not a good idea to see him again. It was kind of hey we're both not doing anything type of thing, so why don't we just chill or hang out and watch a movie? I had made plans earlier in the week for tonight. I'm meeting someone who I've actually been in touch with a lot longer. I've talked to him on the phone numerous times. He seems nice and basically said it's up to you what you want to do or not do and we talked a lot about things and expectations, boundaries, and other pretty important stuff. He basically said he wants to meet and we'll do whatever I feel comfortable with and stuff he's 33 so 10 years older than me but he seems genuine and I guess I'll have to wait and see-- by the way their will be no drinking or drugs involved; I'm pretty sure he doesn't do either, and I've already made up my mind; so hopefully it's turns out well.... I think we may just be going to the movies-- like Harry Potter or something, there can't be anything to hot and heavy about Harry Potter, right? lol