Maybe you could write down some of how you are feeling and take it with you next time. Ask him if he could leave you a voicemail that addresses what you wrote about... ie if you are afraid he will abandon you ask him for a message that is reassuring.
It is amazingly comforting to listen to your T's voice when distressed. So, if you have nothing to say maybe it would help soothe you to just hear his voice?
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