there is a twist....
we were in a long, long distance relationship for 4 years...
she lives in brazil and i live in east coast usa
so i cant afford to just go see her... and im not sure if she has the time to come see me (atleast right now)

im going to wait till we can talk one night and talk to her about these things so i can see what she thinks and what she wants to do.... just appreciate any advice or thoughts on this subject