It's so hard to get over. We were together almost 8 years. It takes a lot for me to fall in love, but when I do, I am committed to that person. I want to get over him, but I just cannot seem to.

I didn't want to know anything - ignorance is bliss. I guess over time people feel that you should know for some reason.

I was upset at him because he didn't bother to mention that he was married or living less than 20 miles away from me for over a year. He actually directly lied, in looking back (making references to where he supposedly lived).

He won't respond now that I called him on it. And it's for the best. I think staying in contact keeps some kind of hope alive for me.