How do you feel about the 2 opinions? (Take away your positive feelings for your dr because they seem to make you feel guilty if you don't agree with him, so start at a not-guilty place and what do you think?)

(I don't think the IOP dr will be upset. HE knew he was a 2nd opinion and that you didn't have to follow him. Just say you aren't ready to make changes yet because your own pdoc doesn't agree with him. It would be ideal if they could take but that's probably never going to happen in the real world. Is it?)