Quick update: My p-doc this morning added Wellbutrin to the Cymbalta I'm already on, so hoping that will help the depression. Plus I have my regular appointment with my T tomorrow. I haven't told H yet what happened--kind of afraid to and don't want to worry/upset him. I left a message for our marriage counselor asking if it was possible for him to fit us in before Monday because I could use his help talking to H about this (only sort of hinted at what happened in the message because it seemed weird leaving it on his voicemail. I did tell him that T and p-doc know details so he could talk to them--they all have permission to share info on me--or else talk to me about it.) So we'll see. Figure I'll just have to hide my stomach until we can talk about it...

How do you all deal with telling loved ones about it?