You know what?? I think you are an adult and can pick and choose what you want to do when you want to do it. You don't have to answer to anyone about what makes you tick, what makes you happy or what makes you sad.

Enjoy yourself....you are the one that has to live with yourself for the rest of your life. These things you do to make yourself happy are what good memories are made of. And knowing that you are taking care of #1 is the utmost important! YAY for you!!

Hugsssss
J