You two aren't married. I don't judge that at all but you are under no obligation to move around the country or quit your jobs or wAit for him etc you don't have any kind of duty to do any of it. Including writing essays for him.

I don't agree with putting more resources in to support groups or counseling how to deal with abuser. Like it's your problem. Much cheaper and way productive is to just go live your life. You and others make it sound as you are military wife. You aren't. I would count my blessings and move on.

I had to add that no you aren't triggering anything. It's not about you.


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