Hmmm....sounds to me like they might be jealous of you and your happiness. I guess there is nothing bad in your life that they can hound you about so they make up things? Such a shame
Family is always harder on us than anyone else and hardest to live with too. I'm sorry you are put down that way. I know it's hurtful, but what I try to do in those times is "consider the sources" and let it go in one ear and out the other if at all possible. I know it's not easy....lordy I do know.
Hold on tight to your beliefs and your happy times that YOU make!
Hugsssssss
J