You seem to somehow enjoy the drama. Maybe it makes you feel like the strong, sane person in the relationship? But truth is you are posting tons of threads about the same thing, which to me seems a bit odd. Do you ever share your issues and not just hers? Everyone has some kind of problems. Maybe you need to take a step back and ask yourself why you need a whole subforum focused on this friend. You say you can teach your friend social skills, but I doubt she wants to be trained like a dog. Maybe you are simply too focused on her and she can sense that. Maybe you need to realize friendships are supposed to be fairly equal, one part is not supposed to lead the other.