I am soo sorry that happened to you Patty. So sad this happens to women. Then there are women that go for the kill and gets almost everything, Then women like us. (((huggs))))

You know Patty, to be honest, I don't want the x's money. Kind of gives me a sick feeling in my tummy even thinking of it. Would only validate that I am needy or helpless and still needing the x's support. I am a firm believer we are responsible for our lives. I am even responsible for this pathetic life I am living now. It sickens me that I've crashed and crumbled to what lil piece I have left of me. And I don't want the x to get puffed up thinking he won. Even if he did. I guess I still have a little pride left. Just not a whole lot of doing left. Life is survival. The strongest survive. Guess I haven't been good at "surviving"..guess I am not one of the "strongest". Falling all over myself. I can't remember exactly how that saying goes..