Yes I understand. I have graduate degree in the field and do this for a living

But that's beyond the point. This thread isn't about you but about about another person. You just told someone who is struggling that he needs to give up while all of us were trying to help him for months sometimes by applying tough love or what not but never telling him to give up.

Now about who finds love it what not. One needs to make an effort. Hard effort and hard life long work. I'll have to delete this later as not to be identified.

My BF has severe OCD ( has to be medicated), GAD , ADHD and he has Tourette's. The kind that people turn their heads and look at us when are out. Also he struggles with weight due to Meds.

He found love. He also has two college degrees, is licensed and holds professional job. He is RN. and is good at his job. Yes with tourettes. His life is a daily work on how to get through. He's been doing behavioral therapy his whole life on and off along with biofeedback as his tourettes cannot be medicated as it will leave him unable to continue his career (too many side effects)

He also has variety of hobbies that he chose to help him manage ocd and touretes ( the ones that require concentration). He is also very awkward to say the least. Well he is awkward without tourettes but that's sure adding to it! Yet it doesn't mean he isn't successful!

He chose to do hard work. Not easy at all. Daily work. And so can others.

Do not tell shadix he can't do it. He can and so can you.

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