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Old Jul 22, 2015, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Teggers View Post
Wow. I've never wanted kids, but people constantly saying "never say never" has somehow made me believe that this might change. Of course anything in life may change but now I'm in my thirties I guess I am more open to "possibly" having a child if I found the right man who would want that life 100%. But deep down not sure if my gut feeling will ever change... Perhaps this man is now feeling like his legacy must live on.. A male thing.
Yeah, this was sort of how it worked for me. I never wanted kids, but at a certain age, I understood what the biological clock was all about! It's just left me confused - which feeling is right?

Very few people say that they regret having children. Is it because no one wants to admit to it or because something clicks when you have a kid??