The idea horrifies me. The way these people talk about themselves and what they do amuses me and horrifies me - much like tv evangelists. I doubt the woman thinks she loves me - if she ever had such an insane (to me at least) notion - I would hope she has the decency to keep it to herself. For me, I don't go to have someone nurture my growth or anything like that - and I certainly hope the woman does not think of herself as doing such a thing.