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Originally Posted by Claire2015
That is a very good point thank you for that however i have had bad anxiety for the past year almost terrified of going out the house. But i listened to people around me telling me something was wrong and decided to sort it out. I have had a counsellor for the past year who says i am very self aware and thinks that i am very sensitive and generous. Which is really polite i find it humbling. But yeah i do apologise for that it is just she is the only concern in my life right now otherwise everything else is brilliant.
After years of just taking a battering from her and her mood swings i finally understand her more but just want to help and broaden my knowledge of ADHD so i can help others too. I'd rather give than recieve and seeing as i have got A LOT of help in the past year i wanna give back. I understand anxiety and ADHD are 2 different conditions but i have a different outlook on mental illnesses having been through a pretty hectic year.
I have a lot of friends that take care of me and vice versa it's just one of my ADD friend's doesn't and that pulls on my heart strings a bit.
Thank you again 
Claire |
As I've said in earlier posts, you need to step back a bit. Take care of yourself for a while and let your friend sort out her life on her terms. At the moment it appears that she is just dragging you down. You've done all you can at the moment, put the ball is in her court and let her make the next move. Don't let the drama in her life keep you from moving forward. You are doing everything you can to fix someone that at the moment doesn't want to be fixed or doesn't think she is broken. Concentrate on the friends that support you. You can still be her friend if she needs one, give her space, if she is going to fall it's not your responsibility to pick her up.