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Originally Posted by haier
Nobody understands why I put up with it. Truth is it doesn't bother me. They have problems and I just wish I could help.
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If it doesn't bother you, then why stop the relationships? If them being a-holes really isn't an issue, then what is the issue?
Like I said, they'll keep pursuing you as long as you respond. The reason they keep pestering you is because you've taught them that as long as they keep it up, you'll respond. That's what jerks do. A nice guy will give you space.