I was abused when I was young and although I have had counselling which was not to helpful other than identifying some problems.

I have been addicted to non-commited sex. Although I have used a PC to arrange meets, I have deleted all traces. URLs e-mails, pics from my PC as well as blocked MSN users and contacts. I want to move on. I have just had my 4th major relationship fail for too many secrets and being unable to settle down.

Anyone else overcome this and offer advice to stay away.

I dont want this to happen to me again, the secrets stop the talking and then shows me as loosing interest.

Thanks

Lee