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My heart goes out to you my friend for I see the struggles you are going through and if I could do anything at all to make them less difficult for you, I hope you know that I would. I'm glad you were able to post about your feelings. It's important to get them out and it's important to know that people read, listen and care.
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Wondering what I am here for you means, is it just words to say to suffice? Or does it mean something else, and as long as it is a secret so no one else knows we can somehow care, we will? Has time run out and now it is too late? Are we wasting time here as a human being just taking up space that would be best for someone worthy of anything? Just questions that is all. Just questions....
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May I ask if this is Anabel who wrote this part that I quoted? I think it is but wanted to make sure if I was right or not. Whoever did write it, thank you for writing. You ask good and valid questions. Let's see if I can answer them and you understand my answers okay?
Saying that "I am here for you" can mean a number of different things. They are all good things. It can mean that someone is here to listen to what you have to say. It could mean that someone is physically able to be face to face with you to listen and maybe have a conversation with you. It could mean that some folks are here to support you even if all they can do is give a virtual hug, just to let you know that they care about you.
Sometimes people have a difficult time feeling their emotions, especially if those emotions were not something they were either allowed to feel or were told they were never to feel them. What we all work on is how do we connect with someone else, even if we don't understand our own feelings or how we are supposed to express them. If this is something you are struggling with, please know it's okay to take your time and explore those feelings. You have a right to your feelings whether they be good or bad ones.
It's never too late my friend. You are not just taking up space. You have a reason for being here just like I do. I hope that someday soon you will find your reason for being here. No one could take your place, at least not in my life. To me, you are definitely worthy of being here, of being heard and of being understood. I look forward to the day when we can talk again. It's been a long time since we talked.
I just wanted you to know that I read what you wrote and that I do care and want to understand. I am......here for you dear one. Reach out when you can, I will reach back.
