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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
Except that position doesn't work for everyone…it hurts my hips after a short while and I really don't understand how it's supposed to stimulate the clit enough for orgasm? I've tried it countless times and the most I got out of it was sore hips and a little stimulation of my g-spot (I also don't get how anyone can orgasm from that). But then, I guess other women orgasm at the drop of a hat, so what would I know?
What I'd like to know is why are men so obsessed with this? It doesn't help women orgasm if you pressure them into it by wanting them to orgasm in a certain way at a certain time.
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Instead of moving up and down, she leans forward and moves her hips back and forth. And yeah, if she's been exercising or something it can make her hips pop or hurt so we stop that immediately if that happens. But the movement grinds her clit against my abdomen and that's where the stimulation occurs.
As far as the g-spot goes, that's where the clitoris dips close to the vaginal wall inside the vagina. For my wife, stimulation of the g-spot alone isn't enough however, it heightens the sensation for her if I use my fingers in a "come here" motion during oral sex. In that way, more of the clitoris is stimulated and it seems to increase the intensity and duration of her orgasms.
Regarding why it's a big deal to guys; I can only speak for myself, but I can guess that other guys think this way as well, but it's important to me that my wife really enjoys herself. We all have times that we're not going to reach orgasm for one reason or another, but it can be very frustrating we we don't reach orgasm repeatedly because our partner is being selfish or not focusing on us. And for me making love is about her, not me (current struggle aside). I understand that there will be times when she can't reach orgasm, but I love making her feel good so while I don't pressure her, I do want to be a part of helping her achieve that release.