I truly believe that you are a survivor, with all that messy
divorce. And yes it is true, what goes around, comes around,if not in this lifetime, for sure in the next lifetime.
I also got a divorce, no children and asked for half of the
furniture. My attorney also did me in, by asking me to pay
half of our credit debts, which he bought. When I threw him
out, I only had $12.00 left every two weeks for food. Thankfully, My Mom took me back in.I'm not rich by any means. But I am rich, to be blessed with a roof over my head,food and clothing, and a nice car, and being independent.
I think we all make mistakes, when we are challenged to
decide what we really need and want ,when in a crisis.You
also have a lot of strength, about not asking for more money. He truly doesn't know how POOR he is, because
he is rich. He definitely has to learn compassion and
moral values.Sorry, but this is the way I feel.

Wishing you the best,