ray I think you are right hon. it just seems to me personally that the people that are really jumping here were not in the chatroom especially at the time. not being able to get points across just upsets people me included. when nothing is going on in social there is no issue with the teens being there imo. some people think I don't like teens and that could not be further from the truth. some of my good friends are teens and yes they do need adults at times. my whole point is that when sexual content, not issues are being flung around in a joking manner then the teens just don't need to be there. let's face it here, alot of our teens here are 15 and under and personally if my teen were to be in a chatroom where people were talking about sex and sizes and such I would not want them in there and would try my best to shut down the site. it is for their protection that people say anything at all. I just want people to understand my position on this. close it if you must.