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Originally Posted by Chuva
My BF wanted to go to the seaside yesterday. I have big problems with that because I feel I am too fat (I am 1.65 m, 65 kg) and that people will judge me and criticize me for this reason. I feel very ashamed. My BF was a bit disappointed, not because of the seaside, but because he cannot understand what my issue is. I tried to explain it to him but I'm not very good at explaining. I was quite upset in the end.
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I'm so sorry you don't feel confident at the beach, I definitely understand that feeling! I just want to say that you're in a healthy weight range for your height, and even if you weren't, everyone is so distracted by themselves that they wouldn't notice if you didn't look "perfect".
I know me saying this doesn't change how you feel, but I couldn't leave it unsaid. I'm sure you look like a babe in swimmers and it sounds like your bf thinks so too!!