starrysky, talking to friends and family about the challenges we face often gets that simplistic response. That is why many people have people on Psych Central that they keep in touch with because there is less judgment about MI.

One thing to do is prioritize your goals.

strengthen my hobbies and see what jobs may be related to jobs I could do.
ex get a T and pdoc to help stabilize
get a job to save for moving out
Consider the advantages and disadvantages of living at home or independently
find out how much it will take to live independently - have 6 months savings in case lose job or emergency expenses
set up support team so when move out will have strong support
when have money and support team in place, discuss with parents timetable of moving out.