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Originally Posted by sidestepper
If you have just started I'd be wary of her putting labels on so quickly. Just to be sure you are on the same wave length I'd ask her about that and if she is just giving herself a note to watch how it develops or if she's already decided. if she finds it so hard to relate perhaps then you might talk to her about continuing this relationship.
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Thanks Sidestepper, that is an excellent point and I have wondered if that is the situation. Reading a person's notes is a different thing than reading what they might then draft from such notes.
I think I freaked out too because that happened to push a big emotional button in me. One of the issues I've had in the past was people denying my parents' abuses on the very rare occasions I sought help. Responses I got ran along the lines of "no mother would do something like that to her children" etc. So not being believed about factual events of my life is an extra-disconcerting issue for me.