Thankyou for your kind words. I think I'm ok with everything. The only thing that concerned me was when he took of the condom and tried to do without it which hey that's fine but told him he had to put one on becasue 1 I don't want kids, although I'm honestly not real worried with about that since I'm irregular in that department, Like it's been months since I've menstrated which is contributed to the meds or whatever; doc said it wasn't something to worry about...and 2 I don't want any std's or anything eventhough we had this discussion of using condoms anyway before hand and I know I have nothing; just there's no way of me knowing if he's telling the truth that he doesn't have anything, you know?