Hi ((((Mary Alice)))): My Mom was manic-depressive, (what they called it in those days), so I can understand pretty well what having to be vigilent about another's mood 24 hours a day, and the chaos that often results anyway, is all about, and I really do empathize with you on how hard that is. I admire that you are, nonetheless, staying focused on getting everything arranged for your surgery. Once that is done and you are recovered, then maybe the issue of your husband not being on meds, etc., can be addressed = one thing at a time, with the primary goal of getting you thru this upcoming surgery = that's the main thing. Is the surgery on Wednesday did you say? Will be keeping you close in prayer! Your friend, Peanut

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT :-)</font color=blue>