HI. I just wanted to weigh in here....

I wrote my mother a letter, regarding her behavior toward me. I really laid into her about her abuse and neglect and how she always made me feel lower than dirt, etc. She told me later it came as a (get this) "total shock" that I was feeling that way. Anyway, it didn't change anything, so I just keep my distance now. When she has a crisis, she calls me. Or if she wants to know how my brothers/sister are doing, she'll call me. My suggestion is to just do as Angela said, write it slowly, revise it and take your time. At the same time, try to lay low. Then you can really get past the exterior "anger" and dig down really deep to the real issues.

I wish you luck.

(((Hugs))) if o.k.

Take Care.
Kimberly