Believe it or not, my husband is such a huge trigger for my Bipolar, landing me in the mental ward so much, that mental health is considering court ordering me into a group home! But he is not verbally or physically abusive and showers me in love!

The problem is that he's very chronically ill with multiple things. At least once a month, he's hospitalized or he's going through yet another surgery. On top of that, our financial situation is very poor, we live in a hell hole and I have no transportation putting stress when I need to take him to the hospital or a doctor.

On top of that, he often gets cut or burned, and I've been told he does this to himself. Once when he almost severed a finger I was told the injury was almost certainly self-inflected. He almost severed another finger too and is actually missing a finger he lost due to an infection said to have been due to a self-inflicted injury. Also he botched two colonoscopies by eating at the wrong time and he's diabetic and he likes to eat at night when I'm sleeping and I've caught him downing pure sugar.

Nurses at the hospital say he demands constant attention, misbehaves by pulling out IVs, and flirts with them.

Also stressing me out is he is pressuring me to have a child! How can I take care of a child in the above situations?

I'm cycling in my moods again and I feel another trip to the hospital because he just went through another surgery and he ended up with a second degree burn he won't tell me how he got. But we are like soulmates and I love him so much! What am I to do?