My Fiance told me he knew I was "Bipolar" after 55 seconds of meeting me. I'm serious that's what he said. Now I know your wife only knew the stereotypes about what Bipolar was like. But my Fiance is curious about why your wife had no idea after being with her for 13 years that you were "Bipolar". Did you ask her how she wasn't tipped off to something like that being who you were? I'm seriously curious. I mean dude, I can tell when someone's "Bipolar" and I could do that before I was diagnosed "Bipolar" in the end of 2013.

And dude seriously, this is the kind of thing you should have told her when she was just your girlfriend.

I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just curious why you didn't think to tell her until you were 13 years into the relationship?