My wife is one of the least observant people I have ever met, so she easily misses out on what is obvious to everyone else. My family and her family quickly knew I was "not normal" but my wife was in love from the first time she saw me and it seems nothing else mattered to her. She noticed quick enough that I was different and that was always explanation enough for her.

I've been asked twice now why I didn't tell her sooner and I already said it never crossed my mind, sorry but I'm not very bright about some things. It is definitely not because I was trying to hide anything from her. She has never told me that she suffers from depression and anxiety, I just figured it out from her meds and disposition. Maybe she just does not like talking about MI in general?