Run for the hills. It will only get worse. Of course he didn't do this in the beginning, he was "love bombing" you. Now that he has you hooked, the games can begin.
My second relationship was very similar. He would do/say things to make me upset, so that I would get upset and he could then hurt me even more by throwing things back in my face. It was never-ending, and the longer I put up with it, the worse it got.
Like as one of many examples, he would imply that I wasn't attractive enough for him. When I would call him out on being emotionally abusive, he would then lay into me about how boring I was. When I would suggest we go do something together, he would explain to me that he knows I don't want to do anything so we can't. When I would explain that we could go do things any time, he would accuse me of starting the fight in the first place.
It's all just a game to malignant sorts. They get inside your head and play with you, like a cat playing with a dying mouse. Run, run, run.
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