Thank you everyone for the replies, I am not in USA, I am in Ireland. There are different laws here and currently they are in the middle of changing the laws around child first, it's called and if you mention a name they will have to report it and look into it.
I felt threatened and blackmailed by this, for a whole hour it was as though she was trying to shame me for not reporting him. I said he wasn't around children anymore and has had a major heart attack in recent years and is no danger to anyone. She asked if I could prove that and said he should pay for what he did. It didn't feel right for a therapist to want to report it so much. It wasn't even about me or my well fair it turned into her agenda, which makes me fell sad and not trust her anymore. I think as clients we have a right to decide in reporting.

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