There is I think a limit to how much you can change someone else and a limit to how much you can change yourself. You can change your own life more than the life of others. If you wish to change either they need to be done in small steps and with patience. Changes in behaviour I think can become habit over time. I have some things in common with your other half. But i would prefer a tidy organized house. Small steps for me. I am slowly learning to cook at the moment. I don't have any suggestions on how exactly you get to where you want to be. Maybe the other members can. Just giving some perspective. Good luck.

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