Monalisa, I'm in the UK and have had a similar experience. It is different here than the US, also laws are changing...

My T pointed out that if she doesn't know someone's name and details, they can't be reported. So we stick to that.

I know that it's pants, and it hurts so much. I felt that I'd forgotten that we (me and T) exist in the real world, and I came down to earth with such a bump. It definitely put the brakes on my talking about that aspect.

And, I work with kids affected by csa, and I do believe that adults have the obligation to protect vulnerable children. So. I want one rule for me and another one for everyone else