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I'm sorry for your struggles. I wouldn't bring it up to the girl. Just let it go. She's still such a baby. Her behavior may or may not have anything to do with what she may have seen or thought she saw. In any case, related, or not, you being there will still be an adjustment for her. She now has to share her mommy. I would give her time. I do recommend putting a latch on the bedroom door and teach the children to knock. You'll find we have a safe and supportive community. I'm glad you've joined us.

I look forward to seeing you around!!!