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Originally Posted by Tongalee
Please, don't get me wrong. I care very much for my therapist and have enjoyed our connection, though the work has been difficult. I don't want to have people bash her or tell me I need to find another therapist because of what happened today.
So I had a rough morning following some difficult dreams that centered around a fear that I have and that has been paralyzing since my childhood. However, when I went to tell her the story and the fear, she laughed! It's wasn't hard, or for long, but it really made me sad and a touch angry. We were able to put away her laughs and talk skit the full story, but it was still pretty unsettling.
What would you guys do?
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This has happened quite a bit with my t, it hurts and if am sorry that your t laughed.
I am wondering did she explain what happened for her in the moment?
When my t laughs, now, she always says straight away defensively, that she isn't laughing at me and that usually it is something in her, once it was a nervous reaction and a few other times she was reminded of something that happened for her in a similar situation.
Most of the time now it doesn't bother me but it did at first and it was very painful but we looked at why it was so painful and how I felt when it happened and it was a very old wound for me when my mom used to laugh at me and then make everyone else laugh at me. So now I am extra sensitive to situations like that.
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