I don't know why, but I can be a very paranoid person, especially in relationships.

I'm insecure and I know that, but not as much about my looks as just lack of security emotionally in the relationship... if that makes sense?

My boyfriend asked for a two week break about a week and a half ago saying he wasn't feeling motivated to lose weight or save money or study harder for school and he thought he would be able to do all of those things if he was single. It broke my heart.

But then five days later he calls me saying that he messed up that he wasn't motivated he just missed me and asked me out to dinner the next day. We went and talked about our relationship, he apologized over and over again, telling me how much he loves me and asking me to take him back.

I did, but now I'm worried I can't make him happy, he cancels plans on me often because he isn't feeling well. He's got social/agoraphobia problems and doesn't sleep well and is tired a lot of the time. But every time he cancels it feels like he just doesn't want to see me. I've shared my feelings with him and he's reassured me that he loves me and it's not because he doesn't want to be around me.

Any tips on how to get over this fear and get back to normal with him?

Thanks in advance for your replies.