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Originally Posted by Webgoji
In a general sense, I think most of us have sexual thoughts that aren't always our partners. Fantasies and such. So in a general sense I don't feel that you have anything to be concerned about.
Now I think the real question is it beyond just fantasizing about that person he saw at the mall or is it how he could get with the other couples you guys hang out with all the time type of thing? There are differences. And if he's just fantasizing about nobody, then it's one thing, but I think it can lead to issues if it's someone he interacts with all the time.
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Thanks for taking the time to reply! Reading your input has helped me realize what kind of questions I should be asking. Thinking about it, that is what is really bothering me. That I don't know if its just random strangers that hes fantasizing about or if it is his close classmates, coworkers, or friends that can develop into something more. He's a super nice guy full of charm and personality so with my feelings of insecurity, its hard for me to differentiate when he's flirting or not. I hate feeling insecure all the time. It's driven me crazy.