I am sorry for all people who have felt abused in their lives. There is no need to prove it, just that you feel it is so means you were not nurtured and loved as all people want in their hearts.

Victims of abuse often feel responsible or guilty of inviting abuse. It is easier to take the blame than face that someone we love would fall to abusing us. It is a shame that happens, but it is all too common with victims of abuse.

There are no easy answers but having a therapist specializing in surviving abuse or PTSD can really make a difference.