Like, how do you explain AD/HD in girls to someone, what the symptoms are in girls compared to boys, is there medication that works better on girls than boys or vice versa...

General questions would be:
-How you don't have to be hyperactive to have AD/HD (I realized that his is actually how it is written) or like "why do you have ADHD? You're not hyper!" or just explain to someone about AD/HD not meaning hyperactivity
-Does medication help?
-How do you deal with ADHD?